Starting Out

This post is a little longer than the usual here on The Fashionably Broke - It's all about your first, real home and the items that make it a "real" home. Read on for more about how I started out as an "adult," or, simply scroll to the bottom for some fun, throwback pictures of me. :)

I only graduated from college a few years ago, but it sort of feels like forever ago now. So much change happen once you enter the "real world." So, to avoid all of those things, I moved to the beach! We lived in a dinky beach house [see below], equipped with enough beds for everyone to sleep in, a bottle opener, and that's about it.

It wasn't until I moved back from the beach, and my boyfriend and I moved into an apartment together [seen here], that I had a few pretty big revelations about this new chapter of my life. The biggest one being that I had to start spending my own money on things, like toilet paper and Windex.

I slowly but surely realized there were going to be some things that I had to do and buy to make our home feel like a real home. Lucky for me, I have an awesome support system and I live very close to most of my family members. Quickly, birthday and Christmas presents from them went from shoes and make-up to crock pots and bath towels. My aunt especially has been a life saver. She is an interior designer and has amazing taste. Not only has she set me up with so many great home essentials, she even comes over from time to time to help me organize things and stage furniture for me. She has been such a huge help in making my house a home, so I wanted to share some of her advice with you guys. We chatted about what she and I think are the most essential items for your home when you're first starting out and here's what we came up with!

First, buy some cookbooks because, as you will realize how expensive eating out can get, you will need them. And now that you're cooking you should get yourself a complete set of pots and pans so you don't have to rewash the same one over and over. There are great starter kits that come with everything you need. Then, buy a good wine opener, because borrowing the neighbors is simply no longer going to cut it. While you're at it, snag a nice set of glasses for entertaining purposes. Find a set that works for day and night and "nice" doesn't have to mean "expensive." Then, my aunt specifically recommends a set of white plates, because you won't get sick of them and the food will look pretty on them before and while you're eating.

I know eating on the couch or in bed is way more fun, but having a kitchen table is important. Even just a small, bistro table and a couple chairs will do.

Oxygen is an essential, so find a living plant or two for inside your home. Home Depot is a great place to find house plants, like a Fiddle Fig or Snake Plant, which are both pretty easy to maintain.

Paint can completely change the entire look and feel of your home (my aunt is known for doing this). It also gives a more "lived in" feel and is a great way to personalize a space that may be on the smaller side and doesn't have a lot of room for decor.

Good lighting is mandatory. Without light, you can't see, read, do your make-up, etc. It also helps to create mood, so we recommend investing in some good lighting for every room. A cute, inexpensive option is string lights.

Invest in a comforter that you will love for a long time and then use it as the starting point for decorating the rest of your room. If you're like me, you make it easy on yourself and go with all white. Either way, the whole room's decor can stem from your comforter as you get more money to spend. It's the perfect place to start.

Find a good chair that is comfortable, one you can curl your legs up in to. We think that you don't even really need a sofa at first, just a chair where you can sit with your feet up or down.

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A few pictures from my Starting Out Phase:

Newly George Mason University Grads, 2010

The beach house, which I do not count as our "first home" for obvious reasons :)

I'm not sure that this counts as "Starting Out," yet?

But bring on the lamps and cooking supplies, courtesy of my Auntie Chantie of course!

Like a good neighbor State Farm is there.

Disclosure: Compensation was provided by State Farm via Mode Media. The opinions expressed herein are those of the author and are not indicative of the opinions or positions of State Farm.

colors of fall

we don't always have time to read fifteen blogs or scroll through pinterest, sometimes it's easiest to look to what's right in front of you for outfit inspiration. especially this time of year. with all of the changing colors, fallen leaves, and seasonal produce there are endless colors that I see everyday that inspire me. like a burnt orange or a hunter green; love. or, a cold gray paired with a warm plum; these are colors I wait all year to wear. a trip to the farmer's market last weekend was almost sensory overload, but i wanted one of everything and couldn't help but want to capture fall and all it's beautiful colors. what are your favorite colors this fall?

Forever 21 Contrast Sleeve Sweater | Old Navy Rockstar Skinny Jeans | Steve Madden Boots (old, similar) |
Necklace via Zina Boutique | Ray Ban Sunglasses | Big Buddha Bag

in other news - see me featured on the DC Goodwill blog today, for Fashionista Friday
learn about why I support this great cause, and my new shoes.

DIY american flag shorts

see the full outfit post here!

1. Supplies: Jean Shorts, Star Stencils (we used Simply Stencils), Painters Tape, Red + White Fabric Paint (we used Simply Spray), and a Paint Brush (a foam brush works well)

2. Chose your denim wisely. I used a pair of jeans i picked up at a swap shop and cut and frayed them myself. I've already been getting questions on how to fray denim, so I am working on a tutorial post, but i can tell you now that i just use a fork!

3. Place a peice of newspaper inside the shorts so that no paint bleeds through on to the back side of your shorts.

4. Spray the fabric paint on to another peice of newspaper, enough to coat your paint brush over and over. Apply paint to your foam brush, and using your stencil, paint on your stars in white.  Make sure to hold down the stencil (or even tape it down) to ensure crisp edges.

5. Tape off the right side of the jean, one stripe at a time, and paint on stripes with the red paint.  Make sure your tape is firmly attached to the jean to ensure crisp edges.  (I can't stress this enough. I messed mine up the first time because my tape wasn't attached well enough, so I sprayed the entire right side red and applied white stripes once the red had dried entirely.) Also, make sure to tape off the pockets, belt loops and waist band.

6. Let it dry!

 
7. Have a Happy Fourth of July!
xx
n&e

Image via What I Wore

festival fashion

and by 'festival fashion' i mean what i wore to the bull run wine festival, which is only my best friend and I's favorite day of the year, where what we wear is almost as important as what we drink. our festival fashion is very important to us on this day. it's really a free-for-all at festivals, to wear your most hippie-chic outfit and colorful jewelry (or sundress and jack rogers, if you're the masses). we wore rompers, we sat indian style and ate corn dogs, and we briefly had panic attacks when i lost my phone in a field. all typical of your casual, drunken wine festival, better known by its technical term - 'adult power hour for wine-o's.'

isn't she cute? by the way kendall, you're hired.

for more festival fashion inspiration from moi, visit here, here, and here.

Kimchi Blue Romper (love this one)| Loft White Button-Down | Vince Camuto Braden High Heel Boots | Zara Messenger Bag | Stella & Dot, Tinn Lily, She's Unique, Vintage Jewelry

 

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